Gullible Jones wrote:Eh. Their definitions of masculine and feminine are weird (not that I've ever seen better definitions, mind). How are you supposed to care for those around you if you can't achieve anything yourself? How are your achievements useful if they don't help anyone else? These are interdependent, not opposite, IMO.
Likewise individualist vs. collectivist. I really do not think those are opposites! c.f. the United States, where people should ideally be both highly independent and highly patriotic.
I suspect this is mostly crap. OTOH you're the one who lives in Venezuela...
Think of it as a range or continuim of traits. Those traits associated with winning at all costs, competiveness, and success (often at the expense of other things) are considered "male" traits. Caring for others and satisfaction with what you do are considered "female". In societies where male traits are dominant you get less cooperation and more competion. at one end of the range is the totally "male" society where it is all about the accomplishments of the indivdual. At the other end of the range are those socieities that value cooperation and group success and are considered "female" because at one time taking care of the family and being maternal was considered to be only a woman's natural inclination. It has only been within the last 25 years or so that male's have been credited with having a "paternal instinct".
Again it's a spectrum with individuals falling outside the norm and societies sometimes changing over time. For example, the westernization of many Asian cultures has been viewed as introducing more of the "male" traits into thier society.