So, sorry Fisher, but I'm gonna call bullshit on what's basically the "kids these days are soft, no respect," etc thing. For a lot of reasons.
- First of all, I seriously resent the idea that my generation does not work hard. I have seen no evidence supporting this- in fact all studies show that my generation works even harder than older ones, because the increased competitiveness and coming into the worst economy since the Great Depression. For example, do you know what it takes to get into a top 50 college these days? I have read some applications, and they are
insane. Most Ivy graduates a few decades ago statistically wouldn't have the chops to be accepted today.
- Second, I get the impression that a lot of people in this thread are making generalizations about "young people" without really knowing a lot of them personally. I might be wrong, but just for the record, I have found all the undergraduates I am in contact with at my university as polite, nice people who are willing to work hard and don't really complain about it beyond a "to your friends" level, and have never shut down anyone's free speech. Just because they're being painted with a bad brush here, so while anecdote is not the plural of data I feel it would be unfair to not mention this about them.
- Third, I
severely reject the idea that you need to go through what's a hazing process to be successful in your career. I will not regurgitate it here, but everyone reading this knows about the emotional abuse I have had at the hands of those superior to me in my field, under the guise of "making me a real scientist" and then claiming I thus cannot be one because I couldn't reach impossible guidelines. Do I think that's made me stronger? Fuck no. So far all it's done is cost me a huge amount in time and money just because petty assholes in power decided "this is the way it should be." And I'm the lucky one because the old guard thinks nothing of destroying other people's lives for no good reason, because those people didn't "cut it." I know for a fact that you don't have to go through that bullshit to be successful because plenty of people around me who didn't have asshole supervisors are doing just fine if not better in their careers. As is, I see no reason that
one third of PhD students are at risk of a psychological disorder beyond vague ideas that it should be that way because it was for the generation prior.
- And yes, I did go to a counselor to deal with that trauma, because the circumstances of my professional career were manifesting themselves in said signs of severe psychological stress. To anyone who judges me for doing that, well, fuck you.
- Fourth, I should note that the only people who ever impinged on my free speech were not students or others in the younger generation, but frankly all old white men who tried to get rid of me and then tried to kick me out when I told others about what they were doing to ruin my life. They
certainly still have had far more power over my life, and the lives of other students who were not capable of standing up to them, than any naive 18 year old kid who doesn't really have any power beyond being noisy and demanding.
So with that, I reject the idea that compassion has no place, or that things have to be made harder than they already are. I have found that life is already plenty difficult professionally on its own without the insistence that the real problem is my generation's inability to pull ourselves up by our bootstraps.