This is the most succinct summary I've seen of a thing that has bothered me a lot, for a long time:
"About Face: Death and surrender to power in the clothing of men."
https://popula.com/2019/02/24/about-face/
You can take or leave the jargon parts (I agree strongly with most of them), but this is a very real pattern, and it's part of why I refuse to wear anything with skull symbolism on it. It is not lost on me that the skull was the symbol of the Waffen SS, and it's not lost on the modern far right either.