So, quick gripe about this:
Some people wrote:You Can't Ignore Reality (TM)
as in "Men are men and women are women, blah blah blah insert stereotypes here, You Can't Ignore Reality."
I know we've been over this, I'm at best a faux wannabe pseudofeminist with chauvinistic tendencies, yada yada. But... no. Just no way. You can't just go and define stereotyped behavior as Reality just because most people happen to act that way. Statistics are statistics, not invariant laws.
Anyone can acknowledge there's a huge difference between George W. Bush and Al Gore (for example), or Hillary Clinton and Sarah Palin. Different people, different personalities. So, maybe most women have personalities more along X lines, and men more along Y lines, and that's okay, but seriously, don't tell me that this is Reality and everyone fits neatly into little archetype boxes. That's not Reality, that's a simplistic fantasy.