FZR1KG wrote:Lesbians are men. Aren't they?
code monkey wrote:FZR1KG wrote:Lesbians are men. Aren't they?
nope
Rommie wrote:Seriously, this is actually a big debate in academia (at least hte parts still quite male dominated) as most women feel if they don't wear a baggy t-shirt and jeans and try to look "nice," even at a conference on a day you're giving a talk, men take that as an invitation to stare. And it totally definitely happens. (My female professors in my dept never "look nice" because one was inappropriately touched by a senior man just a few years ago for the heinous crime of wearing a nice skirt to a conference dinner.)
I think that's fucking dumb mind because I am a girl who likes to wear skirts, but even with a not-low-cut shirt one will often get comments. It's actually at the point where controversial as it is many men are advised to not comment on women's clothing at all because while most men aren't jerks there are enough these days to ruin it for everyone. Very controversial as you can imagine (and before FZ says anything, the guy who spearheaded this is actually an Aussie!).
cid wrote:Q -- what's the first thing you notice about a woman?
A -- depends if she's coming or going...
squ1d wrote:I can confirm that if I made comments about a woman's clothing at work, I would probably get fired. But I don't really care because I wouldn't anyway, what people wear at work is irrelevant to me. Outside of work is different
FZR1KG wrote:squ1d wrote:I can confirm that if I made comments about a woman's clothing at work, I would probably get fired. But I don't really care because I wouldn't anyway, what people wear at work is irrelevant to me. Outside of work is different
Which is why I always avoided that trap so instead I pointed out things they weren't wearing, like bra or underwear. Can't get in trouble for that!
FZR1KG wrote:I did
I’ll stare at your breath if you want me to.... I’ll even stare at your husband’s ass.... I stare at my husband’s ass all the time... it’s a cute little ass...SciFi Chick wrote:I don't see how this is any different than how I stare at men's asses when they show them off in a tight pair of jeans.
The only time men stare at my breasts (and my husband will say they are very nice) is when I wear lowcut clothes. When I'm in a loose fitting t-shirt, no staring. If you show them off, it indicates you want someone to look.
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