by Rommie » Mon Apr 13, 2020 3:58 pm
I've always assumed 10x more people have it than are getting tested per those numbers, because if so many people can be asymptomatic it seems a no brainer.
So, a topic of increasing discussion in our house. I don't know if I told you all, but even though we got legally married last fall we were still planning a wedding celebration this coming summer to exchange rings and be present with friends and family in Boston who couldn't make the legal one, on July 18. (F's family already bought tickets from Europe well before this mess all started, because the Dutch seriously love to plan ahead.) We sent out save the dates in December, but haven't even ordered wedding invites yet, because obvious reasons... but I'm pretty sure we are going to have to send those out.
Now, it was always definitely going to be <80 people, and probably <50 if we were to go ahead now assuming we can. But, the European government has already advised everyone to not plan for summer holidays this year, and ultimately the worry is if gatherings of that size will be allowed at all, and if non-US citizens will be allowed in the country by mid-July. And, of course, everyone keeps asking us for updates, as if we know anything more than they do.
So, we are saying for now that we are going to decide around the end of the month- I don't know if we will know anything more by end of the month, mind, but I think you need to give people two months notice either way. And obviously it would suck if we decide to delay it and everything's fine by mid-July, though obviously the way things are going it's unlikely to be as optimistic versus less. (It should be noted that all the vendors are totally understanding and are allowing delays with no extra charge.) And the third thing would be how much to delay it, if we do- is autumn too early? Might be better to just wait until next summer, to avoid the risk of moving it twice, plus then F's family with kids can attend as it won't be during school season (the original intention behind our date), and several of my friends are expecting this fall and wouldn't be able to make it. Obviously a year's delay would suck for its own reasons though.
Anyway, if someone has an angle I haven't considered or thoughts on this, let me know. It's obviously getting increasingly stressful to contemplate.
Yes, I have a life. It's quite different from yours.