Rommie wrote:Wow oh wow, this is awesome. You see, what you just wrote happens exactly in this this book I read once where a bunch of people were really upset about modern-day slavery where they had to give away their work for free because of their right to liberty, and decided to say fuck you to the system and leave it. After all, they didn't owe anything to the system! Best to retreat into the mountains rather than pay a cent of tax to those who do not let you live your life as is your right as a free man! Who is John Galt?
Rommie wrote:Ok, I am less tipsy this morning so let me get down what's been bugging me lately.
FZ, I know you've been under a lot of stress this past year with the restaurant and the boat and what not, and it's been effecting other things too. That said, there are a few things I don't really like when my friends start doing, and one of them is when they make the transition from sharing their opinions to preaching them. Preaching in a way where clearly their opinion is the only right one, with a touch of condescending attitude thrown in (we've known each other how long and you now decide to give basic modeling and physics lessons as if no one else here knows them?), and then dismissing others' opinions which are just as legitimate from their own lives when they've reached another conclusion different from yours.
Rommie wrote:The voting thing, for example- several people here explained why they think you're blowing things out of proportion, that voting is actually good in their experience on the local level or they unlike you like how society is set up. You are obviously allowed to still think your reasons are more important, but then a few days later you just dismissed everyone's concerns about potential issues you might be facing with an "I can't help everyone else is indoctrinated." That is not cool in my book, especially when in a group of friends you've known for years and know are intelligent souls capable of making their own opinions- I don't think I'd ever call anyone on FWIS an indoctrinated lemming.
What broke my silence was the idea that somehow this reflected on my character and commitment to a country as well as implying I am irresponsible for doing so. These ideas are either born of ignorance or conditioning and a dependent on where you live. Most people in the US for example wouldn't have known not voting in Oz is illegal and that people have been jailed because of their refusal to vote. That's ignorance. The automatic decision to label it as irresponsible is conditioning and is a direct result of that ignorance.
Rommie wrote:And I mean Jesus Christ, you're trying to explain why it's good to step back from the world to a woman who has more experience than almost anyone. You don't see why I might find it a little bit patronizing that you're telling me I'm a lemming for actually finding things I rather enjoy in my daily work and what I'm doing with my life? I don't exactly wake up every day thinking "man, I really wish this new shirt I want to buy wouldn't just go in the coffers of the 1%!" or fret about how I'm living a life in shackles as I grade lab reports.
Rommie wrote:So ok, maybe I oughta just step back and not respond to your posts here until after y'all go off
Rommie wrote:- I suspect you won't have this streak as much on the other side- and maybe I'm the only one who has had this feeling lately when reading what you have to say. But as I've said, I just don't like it when my friends start preaching to me as if I don't know what's up and they're the only ones who hold the holy keys to the kingdom of enlightenment, especially when they're friends whose thoughts I normally enjoy reading.
Rommie wrote:maybe I'm the only one who has had this feeling lately when reading what you have to say.
Gullible Jones wrote:Me three. Honestly this stuff has been making me want to post here less.
SciFi Chick wrote:Gullible Jones wrote:Me three. Honestly this stuff has been making me want to post here less.
All the times we've stuck it out when you've posted inflammatory things, and the first time FZ goes a little over the edge and needs his friends to stand by him, this is your response?! I'll take Rommie's or TSC's way any day. I'm really shocked.
FZR1KG wrote:SciFi Chick wrote:Gullible Jones wrote:Me three. Honestly this stuff has been making me want to post here less.
All the times we've stuck it out when you've posted inflammatory things, and the first time FZ goes a little over the edge and needs his friends to stand by him, this is your response?! I'll take Rommie's or TSC's way any day. I'm really shocked.
I haven't gone over the edge in a while. Pretty sure it was a month ago when the water was much warmer than it is now.
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