Sigma_Orionis wrote:What pisses me off is that these people think they're so special. MAYBE (and I certainly doubt it pretty much) in other countries they are, but here in Bananaland, the "successful people" (Business Owners, C-Level Execs, etc) I've met, if they have any "special talent" that guided them, they sure hide it well, and they're all spoiled brats too. So, as far as I am concerned, Cuban can go cry a river.
SciFiFisher wrote:There is a fine line between giving someone a training/learning experience and exploitation. The healthcare industry is full of unpaid interns who actually meet the legal criteria to be unpaid interns. And they PAY a college for the privilege of said internship.
Swift wrote:There actually exist business types who's success does trace to talent, not luck (Elon Musk seems to be one example). Those people don't seem to have the need to keep pointing out how special they are, they just continue to do their thing.
Rommie wrote:Indeed. My experience is the majority of people, including those in the 1%, are actually really nice folks and do not seek the limelight and all that jazz. For many you'd actually have no idea they were so successful at first glance, and the know how lucky they are. But then there are the annoying idiots as well that go with that, unfortunately, but they are the minority.
Few things are more overrated than confidence.
Many people see it as the key ingredient of success, and assume that boosting confidence is the solution to all their relationship and career problems. Most people would rather swallow a confidence pill than a pill designed to boost their knowledge, empathy, or competence
Yet, there is little evidence for the positive effects of high confidence, and a great deal of evidence for its detrimental effects. Furthermore, although much of Western society regards insecurity as a sort of character disability, there are many psychological advantages to low confidence, and several reasons for embracing our inner insecurities and self-doubts.
Swift wrote:I think this article from CNN is relevent
http://edition.cnn.com/2014/10/23/business/opinion-low-confidence-success/index.html?hpt=hp_c6Few things are more overrated than confidence.
Many people see it as the key ingredient of success, and assume that boosting confidence is the solution to all their relationship and career problems. Most people would rather swallow a confidence pill than a pill designed to boost their knowledge, empathy, or competence
Yet, there is little evidence for the positive effects of high confidence, and a great deal of evidence for its detrimental effects. Furthermore, although much of Western society regards insecurity as a sort of character disability, there are many psychological advantages to low confidence, and several reasons for embracing our inner insecurities and self-doubts.
SciFi Chick wrote:....though the husband occasionally pretends to be arrogant just to yank chains.
Sigma_Orionis wrote:SciFi Chick wrote:....though the husband occasionally pretends to be arrogant just to yank chains.
Zee? yanking chains? perish the thought! I would have never imagined that.
How about "Arrogance is confidence without the backup?"
Sigma_Orionis wrote:COMMUNIST!
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