Where does the time go?

Where does the time go?

Postby SciFiFisher » Tue Aug 02, 2016 3:03 pm

In approximately 11 months I will be retiring from the U.S. Army Reserve component. I will be able to count a period of time as an enlisted person and an officer that spans 14,768 days. For those who like the math done for them that is 40 years, 5 months, and 7 days if I hit my target date of June 30, 2017 to officially retire.

The reasons are more than one. Suffice to say it is time. Interestingly it has nothing to do with how much the army has "changed" since I got in. It is not without a certain amount of sadness and trepidation that I contemplate this significant change in my life.

Over the span of 40 years I have had an incredible opportunity to do things that the average person never gets to experience. Especially in this age when less than 2% of the available population volunteers for military service. I have had the incredible chance to mentor and learn from a host of bright and dedicated people in the military.

I have accrued over 13 years of active duty, 7 + years of inactive service (I was officially in but didn't do much except grow a mustache), and 20+ years of reserve duty doing "one week-end a month and two weeks a year" roll: Anyone who has had a highly demanding part time job will recognize the satire and irony in that last statement.

For many years the running joke in the family has been that I would retire "boots first" which is an acronym for dying in uniform. :P It seems that Sister Destiny has deemed me unworthy or not foolish enough for that fate. ;)

My other favorite quip was to tell people that I was getting a 20 year active duty retirement but I was taking 40 years to get it. I have succeeded. :mrgreen:

Brite keeps telling me that I am the most happy when I am in uniform. She avows that I won't know what to do with myself when I no longer have that fraternity to participate in. There is more than a kernel of truth to that.

I am not prone to melancholy nor will I waste away. 8-) But, I am indeed wondering if I will find a suitable replacement for my proclivities. :P

I wanted to share this with the FWIS community because peripherally you all have been part of that journey for the last several years.
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Re: Where does the time go?

Postby Swift » Tue Aug 02, 2016 3:49 pm

:rockon: :cheers:

SciFiFisher wrote:Brite keeps telling me that I am the most happy when I am in uniform. She avows that I won't know what to do with myself when I no longer have that fraternity to participate in. There is more than a kernel of truth to that.


There are plenty of volunteer positions that require you to wear a uniform, if you need your uniform and fraternity fix.
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Re: Where does the time go?

Postby Thumper » Tue Aug 02, 2016 5:22 pm

Swift wrote:There are plenty of volunteer positions that require you to wear a uniform, if you need your uniform and fraternity fix.
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Congrats and thanks for sharing. As I have passed the date where I can retire with 30 years of civil service to the state of Ohio, in addition to financial concerns, there is the, "well now what am I going to do" trepidation.
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Re: Where does the time go?

Postby geonuc » Tue Aug 02, 2016 9:27 pm

I've been retired (mostly) for over a year now and still haven't figured it out. You may have better success.

Well done, sir.
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Re: Where does the time go?

Postby SciFiFisher » Tue Aug 02, 2016 10:51 pm

Thumper wrote:
Swift wrote:There are plenty of volunteer positions that require you to wear a uniform, if you need your uniform and fraternity fix.
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Re: Where does the time go?

Postby Sigma_Orionis » Wed Aug 03, 2016 2:32 am

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Re: Where does the time go?

Postby Rommie » Wed Aug 03, 2016 12:04 pm

Congrats, sir. :)

For the record, my father had a really hard time adjusting at first to retirement- like literally had a heart attack a month into it because he was so stressed. (I do NOT recommend that route!) But now, honestly, he wouldn't go back, although he does enjoy still going to one or two professional conferences a year type thing. But I learned from him figuring out just what you want to do all day when you retire is a bit of work in itself, and can take a few years, but that is perfectly ok.

I mean, I obviously may have no idea what the hell I'm talking about, but just thought I'd share if it's of any help.
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Re: Where does the time go?

Postby SciFiFisher » Wed Aug 03, 2016 2:36 pm

The good news about the retirement thing is that I am only retiring from the military. I will still continue to work as a nurse for the veteran's healthcare administration for several more years. I won't be sitting around the house making Brite crazy...yet. :P

The army has been a major part of my life. I have been in the military for most of my life. I enlisted when I was 19 and I will be just shy of 58 when I officially join the retired reserve force. Yes, I will still be subject to call up in theory. In reality it would take WWIII or a massive mobilization effort for that to happen. :P

Although there was the psychologist they called up just after they invaded Iraq. He was in his 70's. :shock:
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Re: Where does the time go?

Postby Thumper » Thu Aug 04, 2016 11:08 am

SciFiFisher wrote:
Thumper wrote:
Swift wrote:There are plenty of volunteer positions that require you to wear a uniform, if you need your uniform and fraternity fix.
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OMG, you're perfect. It's like you've been training for this opportunity you're whole life.
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Re: Where does the time go?

Postby SciFiFisher » Thu Aug 04, 2016 3:19 pm

Thumper wrote:
SciFiFisher wrote:
Thumper wrote:
Swift wrote:There are plenty of volunteer positions that require you to wear a uniform, if you need your uniform and fraternity fix.
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"Welcome to Walmart. Get Your Stuff and Get the F*** out". :lol:
OMG, you're perfect. It's like you've been training for this opportunity you're whole life.


It's a natural talent. :P
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Re: Where does the time go?

Postby SciFi Chick » Fri Aug 05, 2016 11:38 am

While you contemplate retirement, I am contemplating starting a new career...
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Re: Where does the time go?

Postby SciFiFisher » Fri Aug 05, 2016 3:39 pm

SciFi Chick wrote:While you contemplate retirement, I am contemplating starting a new career...


Don't pick nursing! :lol:
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Re: Where does the time go?

Postby squ1d » Fri Aug 05, 2016 6:09 pm

Are you gonna retire completely or just from the military? If not completely what's next?

I had a boss who retired a few years ago. He was a good boss, but the type who you thought could never be happy or rested retired. He continues to defy expectations by being completely content.

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Re: Where does the time go?

Postby SciFiFisher » Fri Aug 05, 2016 11:02 pm

squ1d wrote:Are you gonna retire completely or just from the military? If not completely what's next?

I had a boss who retired a few years ago. He was a good boss, but the type who you thought could never be happy or rested retired. He continues to defy expectations by being completely content.

Good luck.


I am only "partly retiring". I am going to retire from my "part time" military career. The reason for the quotes is that from 2005 to 2014 I racked up over 8 years of full time duty with the army reserve. Thank you Global War on Terrorism. I have been an RN for over thirty years and will continue that career for around 7-10 more years with the Veteran's Administration. At which time I will retire from the VA and helping my fellow veterans and go to a full time job of driving Brite and my kids crazy. :twisted:

I have a suspicion that boredom will never be one of the reasons I miss the army or any other job. :P
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Re: Where does the time go?

Postby code monkey » Sun Aug 07, 2016 2:29 pm

so many of the retirees say that they're busier now than they were when they were working. not a bad idea to start thinking about what you want to do with all that free time now.

all the best!
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Re: Where does the time go?

Postby code monkey » Sun Aug 07, 2016 2:31 pm

so many of the retirees say that they're busier now than they were when they were working. not a bad idea to start thinking about what you want to do with all that free time now.

all the best!
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Re: Where does the time go?

Postby SciFiFisher » Tue Jun 13, 2017 4:40 am

This last week-end was my last official military week-end. Assuming the retirement orders arrive within the next 30 days. We did a retirement ceremony. I handed over the keys to the office to one of my Majors who will hold the job down until the army reserve chooses a new commander for the unit. There was cake. I said a few words of wisdom about being consistent, showing up, and doing what needed doing. I also talked about second chances. Of which I have had plenty.

One of my fellow officers read my (short version) biography:

NARRATOR: LTC Jesse Kesler grew up in rural Eastern Washington as the eldest of five children. While serving as a Non-Commissioned Officer of the Army Reserve he became a registered nurse. He was commissioned in the Army Reserve Nurse Corps in 1993.

As an officer, he has held a number of nursing, leadership, and teaching roles including medical platoon leader, NBC Officer, clinical educator, preventive medicine detachment commander, Chief nurse, and Sr Nurse Case Manager for the Community Based Warrior in Transition Unit in California. His overseas tours include a tour in Korea from 1977-1978 and one to Riyadh Saudi Arabia for the 1st Gulf War in 1990-1991.

His military career has spanned four decades, two major conflicts, and seven presidents. He has served with distinction as an enlisted soldier, a non-commissioned, a commissioned, and a field grade officer.

His civilian nursing career has spanned almost 30 years and includes medical-surgical nursing, intensive care, case management, and varied educator roles.

LTC Kesler has completed Command and Staff College. He currently holds a Master’s degree in Nursing Science with a major in Nursing Education. He also has a Bachelor’s in Nursing Science from Washington State University and is a nationally certified Nurse Case Manager.

His awards and decorations include the Meritorious Service Medal with two Oak Leaf Clusters, Army Commendation Medal with 4 Oak Leaf Clusters, the Army Achievement Medal with 3 Oak Leaf Clusters, the National Defense Service Medal with 2 bronze Service Stars, Southwest Asia Service Medal with 2 Bronze Service Stars, Kuwait Liberation Medal (kingdom of Saudi Arabia), Global War on Terrorism Service Medal, Non-Commissioned Officer Professional Development Ribbon, Army Service Ribbon, the Armed Forces Reserve Medal (M device- 3rd Award), and the Army Reserve Component Achievement Medal (13th Award).

LTC Kesler is married to the former Rebecca R Clontz of Buffalo New York. As a blended family, they share 6 children, 8 grandchildren, and 1 great grandchild. They currently reside in Sacramento CA.
***************************************************************************************************************
Assuming the orders arrive within the next 30 days the only time I will get to wear the uniform again is for parades, weddings, and funerals. :P
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Re: Where does the time go?

Postby vendic » Wed Jun 14, 2017 10:16 am

Happy retirement mate!
Nice story too.
Any idea on what you are going to do?
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Re: Where does the time go?

Postby Thumper » Wed Jun 14, 2017 12:33 pm

Well, he has a little experience in nursing, maybe he could look into doing some of that. :P

Congratulations Sir.
A career to be proud of.
And a nice salad.
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Re: Where does the time go?

Postby SciFiFisher » Wed Jun 14, 2017 10:52 pm

vendic wrote:Happy retirement mate!
Nice story too.
Any idea on what you are going to do?


I will still be working for the Veteran's Healthcare Admin. I have about 6 more years before I retire on the civilian side.
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Re: Where does the time go?

Postby SciFiFisher » Wed Jun 14, 2017 10:54 pm

Thumper wrote:Well, he has a little experience in nursing, maybe he could look into doing some of that. :P

Congratulations Sir.
A career to be proud of.
And a nice salad.


Thank you. Luckily it wasn't a Caesar salad. :P
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Re: Where does the time go?

Postby Swift » Thu Jun 15, 2017 12:16 pm

vendic wrote:Happy retirement mate!
Nice story too.

:clap:
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Re: Where does the time go?

Postby code monkey » Mon Jun 19, 2017 6:02 am

all the best on your retirement, fisher. it sounds as though you have ~6yrs to decide whether to really retire and what to do should you decide to do so. best of luck with that one.
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Re: Where does the time go?

Postby geonuc » Fri Jun 30, 2017 10:26 am

I don't normally prefer the phrase but it seems appropriate here: Thank you for your service, colonel.
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Re: Where does the time go?

Postby SciFiFisher » Fri Jun 30, 2017 3:27 pm

geonuc wrote:I don't normally prefer the phrase but it seems appropriate here: Thank you for your service, colonel.


Thank you for yours.
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