Successful eclipsepedition!
Was really nervous getting on the plane to Dallas with the weather forecasts, given how it was gonna be clear within driving distance of Boston, but thanks to family we were committed. And it was SO cloudy all morning- it was pretty clear to me that it was either gonna clear by noon (partial started at 12:20pm locally), or not, and literally minutes before noon the skies parted and we just had a few fluffy clouds here and there and nothing blocking totality at all! We further lucked out because we were all in different hotels in downtown Dallas, but my parents had gotten one that had a pool deck... so when we went at 10am to scope it out, and saw the couches and the staff setting up the bar area, we removed any doubt of there or the park and set up on the pool deck given a 5 month old, 3 year old, and 7 year old. (I think we might have considered park if the weather had been better that morning, because it would've been cool to see effects with the leaves etc, but we figured happy kids in the pool until totality was better.) So, success! The 3 year old did ask to go downstairs with less than a minute to go ("this is freaking me out"), so guess we'll see how much he remembers. Baby was napping at the crucial moment and gave out a single cry when everyone cheered loudly right at the start of totality (a "SHUT UP!" cry), but was asleep again by the time totality was done. And then afterwards the kids asked if they could go downstairs and watch TV- behold, the majesty of nature!
Anyway, second time is also cool (the prominences were especially amazing this time, you could even see the red dots of them by eye- helps to be near maximum!), but the first time was definitely was so much more special just because it was the first- last time I was also so focused on what was in front of me, but this time I was focused on if everyone in our group was enjoying it too, so guess that shows my level of engagement (or just maturity?). F and I both agreed after that we were happy with doing the effort to see it again, but we aren't gonna be eclipse chasers who
need to do this every single time it happens or similar... but we do definitely need to do it again when baby can actually remember it, and my friend in Sydney is already planning their backyard party for 2028, so that might have to happen. Like you all know me for travel, I definitely think there's a good excuse for eclipses to see random places you haven't gotten to yet, but I don't think I'll be a "MUST SEE EVERY ECLIPSE EVER" type.
Finally, random, but I was pleasantly surprised by Dallas as a city. I never heard really nice things, but we were just downtown and relied on Uber and had a great city break weekend- Dealy Plaza/ 6th floor museum was surprisingly emotional for me (though I think we def got some second shooter believers out of it after looking at the setup, interestingly enough), and the botanical gardens were some of the nicest I've been to- lots of great memories created with the little cousins playing in the grass (heck baby's first time really enjoying grass and trees on leaves, what with being born in late October!). I mean I think living there would suck with so much suburban hell/ the politics, but it was also nice that we all had a good weekend too.
Yes, I have a life. It's quite different from yours.